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Helping Your Camper Work Through Homesickness

Homesickness is a common experience, especially for first-time overnight campers. Being away from home, family routines, and familiar comforts can feel overwhelming in those first few days. As parents, it’s hard not to worry. We get it. That’s why we’re here—to walk with you, equip you, and cheer you on as you help your camper grow through this experience. With decades of experience, our team knows how to walk alongside campers through these moments and help them find their footing. 

How We Handle Homesickness

We train our coaches to spot the signs early—withdrawal, tears, or even physical complaints like tummy aches. But more than that, we teach them how to respond with grace, encouragement, and practical tools. Here’s what we focus on: 

Distraction through engagement – We get campers moving, participating, and playing. Movement creates momentum! 

Building connections – Whether it’s a team cheer, a shared laugh, or a one-on-one conversation, relationships are the antidote to isolation. 

Speaking truth and encouragement – Our coaches are quick to offer words that steady anxious hearts—reminding campers of who they are, how capable they are, and that they have what it takes to face new challenges. 

We don’t ignore homesickness—we walk campers through it. And more often than not, they emerge stronger, more confident, and excited to come back next summer. 

What You Can Do as a Parent

Talk About It Before 
Let your child know it’s okay to miss home. Talk about how courage doesn’t mean we’re never scared—it means we trust God and do hard things even when we are. 

Avoid The “Pickup Promise” 
Avoid saying, "If you don't like it, we'll come get you." While it may sound supportive, it subtly suggests that you don’t believe your child can handle the experience. Instead, say, "We believe in you, you've got this!" 

Pack Familiar Comforts 
A favorite shirt, a Bible with a note from you inside, or a small family photo tucked into their duffel can bring a lot of comfort. 

Teach Self-Advocacy 
Encourage your camper to speak up if something’s wrong. Remind them that their coach is there to help and asking for what they need builds both confidence and connection. 

Send Uplifting Mail 
Keep your notes positive and supportive. Focus on what your camper is experiencing, not what they’re missing at home. A message like, “We’re cheering you on and can’t wait to hear all about your adventures!” helps build their confidence more than, “We miss you so much.” 

Our Camp Directors will call if your child experiences prolonged or severe homesickness. We’ll talk with you and come up with a plan together. Most of the time, a little time, love, and patience is all they need!  

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